Growing up in the south affords you the opportunity to experience a long summer. It typically starts in April and will last well into September, and oftentimes, parts of October.
Yes, Spring and Fall do make it here, but they are so short lived.
When I think of growing up, outside of little memories about Christmas or birthdays, I mostly remember summertime.
I'll be the first to admit, I am not a big fan of the hot weather. I don't mean 80 degrees and sunny hot, I'm talking 100 degrees with 90% humidity hot - sauna hot. That's what most of our days feel like down here, starting in July. However, the memories, especially as a child, sort of drown out the hades-like temperature, and flood my mind with happiness.
For one, I remember swimming pools. I spent a majority of my more formative years living in an apartment complex. Luckily, the neighborhood we lived in had a community pool, lake, volleyball court, and 1/2 a dozen playgrounds. It was a huge co-op community - more set up like condos and townhouses, versus your standard apartment complex.
Each morning I would get up fairly early, choke down some breakfast, grab my towel and head to the pool. I only came home for lunch, and then would pop right back down and swim all day long. I remember sliding down the water slide, playing "Sharks & Minnows," perfecting my serve at volleyball, and sitting by the pool listening to Madonna, Elton John, Prince, and Michael Jackson. We would all beg for 50 cents from our dads for the soda machine. I would consume my Dr. Pepper like it was the second coming. We would spend hours upon hours trying to soak up the sun, and gossip about the cute boys. At night, we would all gather down at the picnic tables and engage in a little hide & go seek through the woods of the complex. Later, we would slip on over to the dock, and hang out until we individually would hear our parents yell our names. That was my the bulk of my summer.
But there were other things I remember:
Camp Martha Johnston
I spent a good bit of time from 1979 - 1985, at Girl Scout Camp each summer. Here I learned how to swim, play tennis, hook a warm and fish with a cane pole, identify most plants, canoe, skate, hike, and a ton of other typical summer activities. I remember mail call- a time when we would gather at the McGee lodge and get "Miss you" cards from our parents, and purchase items from the country store. I remember the cool, sweet taste of Cherry Berries, Astro pops, and Mickey Mouse ice creams. I remember limitless mosquito bites and the smell of Deep Woods Off or Avon's Skin-So-Soft. I remember challenging each other to cross the "monkey bridge," it was a rope bridge that took you from bank to bank over Sweet Water Creek. My claim to fame was that I was the only kid who was able to cross blind-folded and walking backwards. Yeah - I used to be quite the dare devil.
Community Children's Theatre
Though most of my friends were stuck to only hanging out at the pool, I was shipped from camp to camp. Each summer, my sister and I would partake in CCT's summer theater camps. I was spend my morning in dance classes, and improvisation classes, and preparing for our summer theater production. Hours and hours were spent rehearsing with some of middle Georgia's best theater instructors. I perfected my form, improved my voice, and could remember entire dialogues very quickly. I made some wonderful friends, people I still know today, and gained incredible experience that has helped me conduct myself appropriately in the workplace, as well as completely washed away any fear I would have of public speaking.
July 4th in Indiana
My dad was from a little town called Monroe City. We would return to southern Indiana every summer for a little family reunion. I remember corn fields and tons of little blond haired cousins. (The Thurston clan - mostly blond hair and blue eyes.) Playing badminton and softball games. Being asked numerous times to, "Say something in southern." Hilarious.
Granny's House
I also spent an extraordinary amount of time at my Great Grandmother's home on my mom's side. Granny was born in 1901, and was still very traditional in her old age. I was extremely close to her because my mom grew up in her house. My grandparents lived with Granny their entire married life - so needless to say, I was probably closer to them than most of my cousins.
As soon as we would enter the doors of my Granny's house, my Papa would point us in the direction of the treats he had waiting for us. (Which would drive my mom crazy.) He would have a bag of Golden Flake Sour Cream & Onion chips and some fudge ripple ice cream in the freezer. I would run to his room and play with my paper dolls, or sit and listen to his Johnny Cash records. I would head out side and play with the dogs, or wander through his amazing garden. I would invite my cousins that lived across the street to come over and play. We would have a wonderful time. I always got the biggest kick from going through their old things. My Grandma Betty had a huge assortment of jewelry and purses. I would have her show me her things, every time I came over. I think she enjoyed telling the stories as much as I loved listening to them.
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Summers in the south really are grand. From quick trips to the beach or lake, to campfires at night. From sweet iced tea on the front porch, to catching lightning bugs at night - everything is special down here.
What are some of your fondest memories surrounding summer?
Showing posts with label swimming. Show all posts
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Friday, June 13, 2014
Saturday, June 11, 2011
But she pushed me..
I absolutely LOVE swimming. There is something so relaxing about water just caressing your skin and carrying you. I feel light as a feather, and simply - free.
But it wasn't always that way.
Though I have always loved water - I still remember how scared I was learning how to swim as a child.
Just recently, my niece began swimming lessons. She is 5 (which would make her about 2 years older than I was when I learned to swim.) Apparently she is taking (excuse the pun) to it like a fish in water. When I called home the other day, she was so excited to tell me about it.
"Auntie Cole, guess what?" Of course she barely gave me a chance to answer, " I went swimming today.. and I put my face underwater. It was fun."
I just smiled. I am thrilled to hear this. My little niece seems to be fearless, and that is what I want for her. See, I grew up with a fairly neurotic mother, who in turn received most of her phobias and fears from her mother .. and the pattern goes. My mom never learned to swim until she was well into her late 20's early 30's. She still does not go under water. Her mother never swam, because she witnessed her little brother drown in the Gulf of Mexico.
I got my first taste of "real" swimming in the summer of my 1st grade year of school. I went to Girl Scout camp in Lizella, Georgia - Camp Martha Johnston. Each summer, on your first day of camp, you were given a swimming test. I was TERRIFIED. You were given either a red necklace (which looked like a REALLY big hair twisty) a green, or a black. Red meant beginner, Green meant intermediate, and black meant advanced.
I was a red. I don't think I even swam. I probably just got in the water and said - 'I don't know how.'
However, by the end of the week, I was swimming! My instructors were amazing. Each summer, I would take swimming classes for 6 years. Do you know what? I eventually got a black necklace!
One of the top instructors in our community made a comment to my mother once, "When she swims, she does not splash - she simply glides and cuts through the water." Mom joked and said it was probably from my ballet classes.
The only SCARY moment I ever had was jumping off the diving board. I was just terrified. I was probably 10. I remember standing there in my swimming class, the instructor was yelling at me to jump in. I just could not get my legs to cooperate. Then suddenly, out of nowhere, she pushes me in.
Obviously, once I hit the water I was confused, I stayed down below a little longer than usual - and came up screaming and in tears. After an embarrassing episode, I calmed down. I DID NOT want to go back to class the next day.
But I had to. I had no choice. Though, I was traumatized.
The next day, it was time to confront the diving board again. The instructor looked at me, with this fierce gaze, "Nicki (that's what they called me back then,) I will come and push you off that thing again. I don't care how angry you get." I looked at her with the deepest, darkest glare I could summon. Raised my arms and dove into that pool - perfectly.
I was shaken to the core - but I took a leap of faith.
I think that was one of the first times I ever just TRIED something, regardless of my fear, and realized - just do it.
Thank God for faith.
And I am pleased as punch that Autumn, my niece, will hopefully not have the same fears.
But it wasn't always that way.
Though I have always loved water - I still remember how scared I was learning how to swim as a child.
Just recently, my niece began swimming lessons. She is 5 (which would make her about 2 years older than I was when I learned to swim.) Apparently she is taking (excuse the pun) to it like a fish in water. When I called home the other day, she was so excited to tell me about it.
"Auntie Cole, guess what?" Of course she barely gave me a chance to answer, " I went swimming today.. and I put my face underwater. It was fun."
I just smiled. I am thrilled to hear this. My little niece seems to be fearless, and that is what I want for her. See, I grew up with a fairly neurotic mother, who in turn received most of her phobias and fears from her mother .. and the pattern goes. My mom never learned to swim until she was well into her late 20's early 30's. She still does not go under water. Her mother never swam, because she witnessed her little brother drown in the Gulf of Mexico.
I got my first taste of "real" swimming in the summer of my 1st grade year of school. I went to Girl Scout camp in Lizella, Georgia - Camp Martha Johnston. Each summer, on your first day of camp, you were given a swimming test. I was TERRIFIED. You were given either a red necklace (which looked like a REALLY big hair twisty) a green, or a black. Red meant beginner, Green meant intermediate, and black meant advanced.
I was a red. I don't think I even swam. I probably just got in the water and said - 'I don't know how.'
However, by the end of the week, I was swimming! My instructors were amazing. Each summer, I would take swimming classes for 6 years. Do you know what? I eventually got a black necklace!
One of the top instructors in our community made a comment to my mother once, "When she swims, she does not splash - she simply glides and cuts through the water." Mom joked and said it was probably from my ballet classes.
The only SCARY moment I ever had was jumping off the diving board. I was just terrified. I was probably 10. I remember standing there in my swimming class, the instructor was yelling at me to jump in. I just could not get my legs to cooperate. Then suddenly, out of nowhere, she pushes me in.
Obviously, once I hit the water I was confused, I stayed down below a little longer than usual - and came up screaming and in tears. After an embarrassing episode, I calmed down. I DID NOT want to go back to class the next day.
But I had to. I had no choice. Though, I was traumatized.
The next day, it was time to confront the diving board again. The instructor looked at me, with this fierce gaze, "Nicki (that's what they called me back then,) I will come and push you off that thing again. I don't care how angry you get." I looked at her with the deepest, darkest glare I could summon. Raised my arms and dove into that pool - perfectly.
I was shaken to the core - but I took a leap of faith.
I think that was one of the first times I ever just TRIED something, regardless of my fear, and realized - just do it.
Thank God for faith.
And I am pleased as punch that Autumn, my niece, will hopefully not have the same fears.
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