Wednesday, May 19, 2010
Coconuts and Salt Water
Back on the whole searching for peace subject...
Some of my most peaceful moments (truly peaceful) have taken place on a beach.
There is something about water that just lowers my blood pressure. I am OBSESSED with water. I love hot baths, I love ice cold water to drink, I love water fountains, ice sculptures.. you name it.
But the sea - ahhh.. the sea, that takes my passion to a whole new level.
I have been very lucky to see at least three bodies of water. The Atlantic Ocean, The Gulf of Mexico and the Meditteranean Sea. Yes.. yes.. there are many more bodies of water I need to see. In particular I am looking forward to seeing the Red Sea and the Pacific Ocean.
I have experienced amazing things by the ocean. When I was a little girl - maybe 10 or so, my family and I would vacation at Jekyll Island in Georgia. The area was called the Golden Isles.
One summer, I remember sitting in a hidden gazebo that overlooked the ocean. It was early morning, and the sky was pink, the sun slowly rising, the sea gulls swooping down to have their breakfast - and I felt such a peace overcome me. Even at that age - it was powerful. The ocean took my heart then and there.
My first time actually viewing the Atlantic Ocean was at Tybee Island, Georgia. That is a little island attached to the north coast of Georgia, near Savannah. Tybee is your typical, funky beach. The only "moment" I had there was right before my surgury (to make the big C word go away) - I remember sitting there smelling the air, watching the waves and thinking.. if this doesn't work, this could be the last time I am at the sea.
When I was in High School, I took my senior trip to Myrtle Beach, South Carolina. I remember sitting at night on the steps leading down to the beach just listening to the sound of the ocean. Wondering.. what was coming next in my life. College was just a few short months away. I remember praying, just hoping for peace and prosperity. It was on those shores I said goodbye to the care-free teen ager and said hello to a young adult.
Think back to Jekyll Island - some major things happened there. For one, I wished on a star when I was 15. Yes - a shooting star. I have to say, the wish came true.
I also made a HUGE decision on that beach. Whether or not it was the right one, I got the blessing to move on. I decided to marry my first husband. I remember taking a girl's weekend with my friend Mary Therese, and we headed to Jekyll. I sat on that very beach and talked with her about the pros and cons of it all. Then I sent that message back out to the sea - and prayed for my one true love. I later married him.. but..
That takes me to the beaches of St. Augustine, Florida. Flash forward about 7 years. My sadness and need for TRUE love was killing me. My husband was far from being the man for me. I remember sitting in a gazebo with him, talking about how our marriage had fallen apart. I admitted I was not in love with him. He left - went back to the hotel room, and I looked out to the ocean and AGAIN left my heart there pleading with the powers that be. See, I never gave up on the idea of soul mates. Never once in my life. I left my thoughts, my heart, my need right there on the ocean... I walked away with sadness in my heart. But a sort of peace also.
That following summer I spent many weekend in Destin, Florida with a very good friend of mine, Lynn. I found warmth, comfort and smiles on the Guld of Mexico. We flirted with the future. Talked about things to come. We tried our best not to let the worries of home dirty of the perfect white sand beaches. The gulf represents a care-free happiness for me.
I have visited a few other beaches that I left a little "emotion" there. I spent some time in Key West, Florida.
I have to admit, I felt perplexed while visiting the keys. It was beautiful, but I could not "soak it up." I was surrounded by elements that stressed me out.
So - my opinion of Key West and the beautiful waters of both the Atlantic and the Gulf (they meet up there) collided. Perhaps my emotions that were sent out to sea could not meet up. It was conflicting needs, wants, memories. It effected me also.
Highland Beach, Florida left a beautiful taste in my mouth. It was a brief encounter.. but a pleasant one.
I think Highland Beach has more to offer. I remember feeling a sense of peace and falling in love with the area (it's near Boca).. perhaps there are some memories waiting to be made there.
I have partied it up at Panama City Beach, Florida. I think that beach, again on the Gulf of Mexico, is used to having the frivilous spirit released.
The views were spectacular, the trinkets and junk was cheap. The beer was cold and the music loud. Panama City will always carry and interesting place in my heart.
Sure I have visited many places along the way.. I spent two summers vacationing in Jacksonville. I spent a few weeks down in Daytona Beach. I have been to Tampa.. drivin down the coast - A1A (beachfront Avenue.) Been to Miami, Ft Lauderdale, Cape Canaveral. All positive experiences.
I have spent time along the Gulf Coast - Orange Beach, Alabama; Gulf Shores, Alabamal; Biloxi, MS; New Orleans, LA.
But I always return to the dark blue, mysterious deep waters of the Atlantic Ocean.
My last plea to the ocean was in Jekyll Island. The moon was full, and I was sitting in a gazebo over looking the rocky edge of the ocean. The way the moonlight hit the water was one of the most amazing sights I have ever seen. I decided to consult the moon and the water this time. One more wish.
Three months later - I met the egyptian. Straight across the Atlantic. Later, I would travel across that big, blue ocean and visit the land of civilation - Egypt. There I would meet a new body of water - full of hopes, and dreams - the Mediterranean Sea.
Here, the egyptian asked for my hand in marriage. We "married" the islamic way two blocks from the Meditteranean Sea. My heart was complete. My soul mate was found.
Later, he crossed the deep blue waters of the Atlantic.
Last December, he and I were on the Pier at Tybee Island, overlooking the sea. I explained this was the first place I ever saw the ocean. It was his first time at the Atlantic. He said, "Something about the water scares me." I told him - this is what separated us for so long.
I think it is time I took him to Jekyll. I think this island holds our secrets. ;-)
Monday, May 17, 2010
Closet Romantic
The truth is, I am a closet romantic. It's true.
I have always believed in love. Always.
Sure, there were a few times I got a little cynical.
For example, my first marriage. The wedding was beautiful, romantic, perfect in every way. Traditional white dress, big cathedral, 5 tier cake, champagne, candle light, pearls and white roses... all the elements for romance were there. One thing was missing - the actual romance.
I did try on several occassions to make the best of it. My ex was never mean to me - just too much like a friend or brother. So, I did what I always do - I tucked my emotions away somewhere safe, where they would not surface.
I did that as a child, feeling the need to be loved and cared for. I learned quickly that love was not something people just gave away, at least not to me. So, I buried the need for those feelings and became quite cynical at a very young age.
See, my theory is, if you are not shown how to love, you begin to question whether love is real. I was not familiar with the "love terminology." I found words like "honey", "Baby", "darling" to be distastful.
If I chose to finally be vunerable and allow myself to think, even for one moment, that maybe someone really loved me, I would soon learn (it never took very long), that the person in question would soon change their mind. Without fail.
So I became a bit more cynical.
Now, I am deeply, truly, madly in love with my husband. I love that.
At the same time, it makes me soooo freaking vunerable and fragile. Two traits I frown upon.
When I met my signifigant other, roses were blooming, stars were colliding and all the planets were in alignment.
Honeymood phase was insanely strong.
Soon - reality sets in. Love is still there, but the growing pains are leaving scars. Getting to that "point" all couples try to reach is hard work.
Turns out, I am an extremely sensitive person. I am fragile. I need a sign that says, "Handle With Care."
Love is not a word I toss around freely.
On a woman who prides herself on her strong will and 'take no prisoners' attitude in other aspects of my life, I find I am not as strong in matters of the heart.
What makes you vulnerable?
SPLAT goes the fan and other Words of Wisdom.
It has officially hit the fan. You know - that icky brown stuff?
All over some reality television.
Clearly more than one television is needed in our home.
******
On to other things.
Work.
There is a mysterious team call at 1:30. Will we hear splat? Or is it just one of those things..
********
Since I cannot go into great detail on any of the items I have vaguely referred to, I need some good old fashioned inspiration. You know when this happens, I turn to quotes.
For your reading pleasure, a series of quotes I find VERY inspiring.
Lord knows, I need a little inspiration today:
Every flower must grow through dirt.
-- Anonymous
Worrying is like a rocking chair, it gives you something to do, but it doesn't get you anywhere.
-- Anonymous
Pleasure in the job puts perfection in the work.
-- Aristotle
We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit.
-- Aristotle
Motivation will almost always beat mere talent.
-- Norman R. Augustine
Imagination is the highest kite one can fly.
-- Lauren Bacall
Not everything that is faced can be changed, but nothing can be changed until it is faced.
-- James Baldwin
I don't know anything about luck. I've never banked on it, and I'm afraid of people who do. Luck to me is something else; hard work and realizing what is opportunity and what isn't.
-- Lucille Ball
The great advantage of being in a rut is that when one is in a rut, one knows exactly where one is.
-- Arnold Bennett
Having once decided to achieve a certain task, achieve it at all costs of tedium and distaste. The gain in self-confidence of having accomplished a tiresome labor is immense.
-- Thomas Arnold Bennett
Be like a postage stamp. Stick to one thing until you get there.
-- Josh Billings
He who kisses the joy is it flies lives in eternity's sunrise
-- William Blake
Action springs not from thought, but from a readiness for responsibility.
-- Dietrich Bonhoeffer
Character may be manifested in the great moments, but it is made in the small ones.
-- Phillip Brooks
Shoot for the moon. Even if you miss, you'll land among the stars
-- Les Brown
We got to roll with the punches, play all of our hunches, make the best of whatever comes your way. Forget that blind ambition, learn to trust your intuition -- plowing straight ahead, come what may.
-- Jimmy Buffett, Cowboy in the Jungle (song)
Not knowing when the dawn will come, I open every door.
-- Emily Dickinson
Genius is 99 percent perspiration and 1 percent inspiration.
-- Thomas Edison
Everything that is really great and inspiring is created by the individual who can labour in freedom.
-- Albert Einstein
In the middle of difficulty lies opportunity.
-- Albert Einstein
It is never too late to be what you might have been.
-- George Eliot
A problem is a chance for you to do your best.
-- Buke Ellington
Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail.
-- Ralph Waldo Emerson
Nothing great was ever achieved without enthusiasm.
-- Ralph Waldo Emerson
Nothing is beneath you if it is in the direction of your life.
-- Ralph Waldo Emerson
Vitality shows in not only the ability to persist but the ability to start over.
-- F. Scott Fitzgerald
Life is a series of experiences, each one of which makes us bigger, even though it is hard to realize this. For the world was built to develop character, and we must learn that the setbacks and griefs which we endure help us in our marching onward.
-- Henry Ford
Obstacles are those frightful things you see when you take your eyes off your goal.
-- Henry Ford
One of the greatest discoveries a man makes, one of his great surprises, is to find he can do what he was afraid he couldn't do.
-- Henry Ford
You can't build a reputation on what you are going to do.
-- Henry Ford
He that would have the fruit must climb the tree.
-- Thomas Fuller, M.D.
We must become the change we want to see.
-- Gandhi
Whatever you do will be insignificant, but it is most important that you do it.
-- Gandhi
Treat people as if they were what they ought to be, and you help them to become what they are capable of being.
-- Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
What does not kill me makes me stronger.
-- Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
Whatever you can do or dream you can, begin it. Boldness has genius, power, and magic in it.
-- Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
When we treat man as he is, we make him worse than he is; when we treat him as if he already were what he potentially could be, we make him what he should be.
-- Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
Every calling is great when greatly pursued.
-- Oliver Wendell Holmes
The greatest mistake you can make in life is to be continually fearing that you will make one.
-- Ellen Hubbard
May the road rise to meet you. May the wind always be at your back. May the sun shine warm upon your face, the rains fall soft upon your fields and, until we meet again, may God hold you in the palm of his hand.
-- Irish Blessing
Keep your face to the sunshine and you cannot see the shadow.
-- Helen Keller
When we do the best that we can, we never know what miracle is wrought in our life, or in the life of another.
-- Helen Keller
There are those who look at things the way they are, and ask why... I dream of things that never were, and ask why not?
-- Robert Francis Kennedy
He who limps is still walking.
-- Stanislaw J. Lec
Whatever you are, be a good one.
-- Abraham Lincoln
It's not whether you get knocked down, it's whether you get back up.
-- Vince Lombardi
Most of our obstacles would melt away if, instead of cowering before them, we should make up our minds to walk boldly through them.
-- Orison Swett Marden
We are not in a position in which we have nothing to work with. We already have capacities, talents, direction, missions, callings.
-- Abraham Maslow
Victory belongs to the most persevering.
-- Napoleon Bonaparte
As for courage and will - we cannot measure how much of each lies within us, we can only trust there will be sufficient to carry through trials which may lie ahead.
-- Andre Norton
Chance is always powerful. - Let your hook be always cast; in the pool where you least expect it, there will be a fish.
-- Ovid
Remember your dreams.
-- Maryanne Radmacher-Herhey
To achieve the impossible, it is precisely the unthinkable that must be thought.
-- Tom Robbins, Jitterbug Perfume
Fanaticism consists of redoubling your efforts when you have forgotten your aim.
-- George Santayana
Every new beginning comes from some other beginning's end.
-- Semisonic, Closing Time
It is not because things are difficult that we do not dare; it is because we do not dare that they are difficult.
-- Seneca
... then the world 's mine oyster
-- William Shakespeare, The Merry Wives of Windsor
Curiosity will conquer fear even more than bravery will.
-- James Stephens
If you want to sing out, sing out, and if you want to be free, be free, 'cause there's a million ways to be, you know that there are...
-- Cat Stevens, from a song lyric
Never give up, for that is just the place and time that the tide will turn.
-- Harriet Beecher Stowe
Can you imagine what I would do if I could do all I can?
-- The Artist Formerly Known As Prince
Once all struggle is grasped, miracles are possible.
-- Mao Tse-tung
Opportunities multiply as they are seized.
-- Sun Tzu
The mind has exactly the same power as the hands: not merely to grasp the world, but to change it.
-- Colin Wilson
Success is peace of mind which is a direct result of self-satisfaction in knowing you did your best to become the best you are capable of becoming.
-- John R. Wooden, Practical Modern Basketball
Do or do not. There is no try.
-- Yoda, character in the movie The Empire Strikes Back
Obstacles cannot crush me. Every obstacle yields to stern resolve. He who is fixed to a star does not change his mind.
-- Leonardo da Vinci, Notebooks
All over some reality television.
Clearly more than one television is needed in our home.
******
On to other things.
Work.
There is a mysterious team call at 1:30. Will we hear splat? Or is it just one of those things..
********
Since I cannot go into great detail on any of the items I have vaguely referred to, I need some good old fashioned inspiration. You know when this happens, I turn to quotes.
For your reading pleasure, a series of quotes I find VERY inspiring.
Lord knows, I need a little inspiration today:
Every flower must grow through dirt.
-- Anonymous
Worrying is like a rocking chair, it gives you something to do, but it doesn't get you anywhere.
-- Anonymous
Pleasure in the job puts perfection in the work.
-- Aristotle
We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit.
-- Aristotle
Motivation will almost always beat mere talent.
-- Norman R. Augustine
Imagination is the highest kite one can fly.
-- Lauren Bacall
Not everything that is faced can be changed, but nothing can be changed until it is faced.
-- James Baldwin
I don't know anything about luck. I've never banked on it, and I'm afraid of people who do. Luck to me is something else; hard work and realizing what is opportunity and what isn't.
-- Lucille Ball
The great advantage of being in a rut is that when one is in a rut, one knows exactly where one is.
-- Arnold Bennett
Having once decided to achieve a certain task, achieve it at all costs of tedium and distaste. The gain in self-confidence of having accomplished a tiresome labor is immense.
-- Thomas Arnold Bennett
Be like a postage stamp. Stick to one thing until you get there.
-- Josh Billings
He who kisses the joy is it flies lives in eternity's sunrise
-- William Blake
Action springs not from thought, but from a readiness for responsibility.
-- Dietrich Bonhoeffer
Character may be manifested in the great moments, but it is made in the small ones.
-- Phillip Brooks
Shoot for the moon. Even if you miss, you'll land among the stars
-- Les Brown
We got to roll with the punches, play all of our hunches, make the best of whatever comes your way. Forget that blind ambition, learn to trust your intuition -- plowing straight ahead, come what may.
-- Jimmy Buffett, Cowboy in the Jungle (song)
Not knowing when the dawn will come, I open every door.
-- Emily Dickinson
Genius is 99 percent perspiration and 1 percent inspiration.
-- Thomas Edison
Everything that is really great and inspiring is created by the individual who can labour in freedom.
-- Albert Einstein
In the middle of difficulty lies opportunity.
-- Albert Einstein
It is never too late to be what you might have been.
-- George Eliot
A problem is a chance for you to do your best.
-- Buke Ellington
Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail.
-- Ralph Waldo Emerson
Nothing great was ever achieved without enthusiasm.
-- Ralph Waldo Emerson
Nothing is beneath you if it is in the direction of your life.
-- Ralph Waldo Emerson
Vitality shows in not only the ability to persist but the ability to start over.
-- F. Scott Fitzgerald
Life is a series of experiences, each one of which makes us bigger, even though it is hard to realize this. For the world was built to develop character, and we must learn that the setbacks and griefs which we endure help us in our marching onward.
-- Henry Ford
Obstacles are those frightful things you see when you take your eyes off your goal.
-- Henry Ford
One of the greatest discoveries a man makes, one of his great surprises, is to find he can do what he was afraid he couldn't do.
-- Henry Ford
You can't build a reputation on what you are going to do.
-- Henry Ford
He that would have the fruit must climb the tree.
-- Thomas Fuller, M.D.
We must become the change we want to see.
-- Gandhi
Whatever you do will be insignificant, but it is most important that you do it.
-- Gandhi
Treat people as if they were what they ought to be, and you help them to become what they are capable of being.
-- Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
What does not kill me makes me stronger.
-- Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
Whatever you can do or dream you can, begin it. Boldness has genius, power, and magic in it.
-- Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
When we treat man as he is, we make him worse than he is; when we treat him as if he already were what he potentially could be, we make him what he should be.
-- Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
Every calling is great when greatly pursued.
-- Oliver Wendell Holmes
The greatest mistake you can make in life is to be continually fearing that you will make one.
-- Ellen Hubbard
May the road rise to meet you. May the wind always be at your back. May the sun shine warm upon your face, the rains fall soft upon your fields and, until we meet again, may God hold you in the palm of his hand.
-- Irish Blessing
Keep your face to the sunshine and you cannot see the shadow.
-- Helen Keller
When we do the best that we can, we never know what miracle is wrought in our life, or in the life of another.
-- Helen Keller
There are those who look at things the way they are, and ask why... I dream of things that never were, and ask why not?
-- Robert Francis Kennedy
He who limps is still walking.
-- Stanislaw J. Lec
Whatever you are, be a good one.
-- Abraham Lincoln
It's not whether you get knocked down, it's whether you get back up.
-- Vince Lombardi
Most of our obstacles would melt away if, instead of cowering before them, we should make up our minds to walk boldly through them.
-- Orison Swett Marden
We are not in a position in which we have nothing to work with. We already have capacities, talents, direction, missions, callings.
-- Abraham Maslow
Victory belongs to the most persevering.
-- Napoleon Bonaparte
As for courage and will - we cannot measure how much of each lies within us, we can only trust there will be sufficient to carry through trials which may lie ahead.
-- Andre Norton
Chance is always powerful. - Let your hook be always cast; in the pool where you least expect it, there will be a fish.
-- Ovid
Remember your dreams.
-- Maryanne Radmacher-Herhey
To achieve the impossible, it is precisely the unthinkable that must be thought.
-- Tom Robbins, Jitterbug Perfume
Fanaticism consists of redoubling your efforts when you have forgotten your aim.
-- George Santayana
Every new beginning comes from some other beginning's end.
-- Semisonic, Closing Time
It is not because things are difficult that we do not dare; it is because we do not dare that they are difficult.
-- Seneca
... then the world 's mine oyster
-- William Shakespeare, The Merry Wives of Windsor
Curiosity will conquer fear even more than bravery will.
-- James Stephens
If you want to sing out, sing out, and if you want to be free, be free, 'cause there's a million ways to be, you know that there are...
-- Cat Stevens, from a song lyric
Never give up, for that is just the place and time that the tide will turn.
-- Harriet Beecher Stowe
Can you imagine what I would do if I could do all I can?
-- The Artist Formerly Known As Prince
Once all struggle is grasped, miracles are possible.
-- Mao Tse-tung
Opportunities multiply as they are seized.
-- Sun Tzu
The mind has exactly the same power as the hands: not merely to grasp the world, but to change it.
-- Colin Wilson
Success is peace of mind which is a direct result of self-satisfaction in knowing you did your best to become the best you are capable of becoming.
-- John R. Wooden, Practical Modern Basketball
Do or do not. There is no try.
-- Yoda, character in the movie The Empire Strikes Back
Obstacles cannot crush me. Every obstacle yields to stern resolve. He who is fixed to a star does not change his mind.
-- Leonardo da Vinci, Notebooks
Saturday, May 15, 2010
Redecorating ..this time - for real.
I am seriously considering a major over haul on the apartment. It looks like we are probably going to be here for a while, so perhaps I should attempt to make some improvements.
For one, I want a new couch. Right now, I have a black leather couch. The leather has begun to crack in certain areas, not to mention my former vampire cat apparently tore a hole into one side.
It is time.
I am drawn to beige couches this year. BUT - I am afriad of stains. I like the idea of changing out pillows for color, that way, it matches everything. I TRULY need your thoughts!!
Here are some of the options I am looking at. (PS - NOT the coffee table and end tables.. JUST the couches.)
Then let's talk walls. I want to paint. BUT - and it's a BIG but, is it worth the time and money? I am a renter, which means, unless it is a super neutral color, I will have to repaint or PAY before I move. Scary thought.
I also have an awesome sunroom (I am sitting in now.) I would love to put a chaise in here. Right now, I have a "day bed" in here and has worked well for guests. However, the eyptian works in the hotel industry now - so no need to worry about housing friends & family any more.
I would love to actually put plants, a chaise, a nice standing reading lamp and house a book case that is actually shelves installed on the wall.I want to get rid of the daybed and the computer desk. Since the floor has tile, perhaps get a decent oriental rug.
Then the bed room. I LOVE my bed. The egyptian is not so found. Since, we do not have a second bedroom to put it in yet, I could just do an overhaul on the chiffarobe (antique), shelf and desk that are in there. These items will all eventually be in a "guest" bedroom. I want a "Greek Isles" feel. Perhaps I can paint the old wood.. but what color??? A Shabby Chic white? Or to be safe (In case I change my mind) - a nice black wood??
The bathroom, well, I think I am going to search today.
The kitchen has the appliances I want, BUT - the walls have wallpaper (which I think is the ugliest thing people could invest in.) Got to figure that one out. I wonder if I can get permission to pull it down?
I guess I am just thinking outloud. Need some thoughts people!! Help!
Friday, May 14, 2010
Staying Safe in the Summer Sun
I am a skin care fanatic. I go CRAZY over making sure I follow the proper regimen for taking care of, what I consider, my packaging.
That's it really - my skin is the wrapping on this very special package. LOL
It blows my mind when I find out that very beautiful friends of mine do not take care of their skin. We are all lucky now, because time has been our friend - but as the southern women say, "We ain't gettin' any younger."
I noticed that I have a very large "reader" group of teen agers on the Facebook Fan page. I thought, well - this might be a great opportunity to discuss something I am so passionate about, and it is awesome advice as you get older.
This goes for girls AND guys - take care of your skin.
I feel as if I might have a tiny bit of authority in this area, I did sell Clinque at one time. LOL
Let's start with the most important piece of the puzzle, and I can admit - I fall short on this one..
DRINK WATER. Hydration is the key to glowing skin. How beautiful to see someone who looks like they are radiant and healthy?? It's water. That's what we use to 'feed' our skin.
The second thing I would recommend is DO NOT TAN. I know, I know.. I lost you at that. But it is important to stay out of the tanning bed. You don't believe me???
Here's the science behind it ( I will try to explain in elementary terms) :
The sun emits two kinds of UV light.
UVA and UVB.
UVB rays are a faster and much stronger radiation than UVA.
UVB rays are most responsible for skin’s burning.
UVA rays penetrate deep into the skin and cause the pigment “melanin” to darken, which result in a longer lasting tan than with UVB rays.
Some tanning salons have switched from using UVB lights to UVA lights for this purpose.
It is important to ask your tanning salon how much of the UVB light is emitted from the tanning equipment, that is, if you do not want to burn.
The repeated darkening of the melanin can cause your skin to thicken. The result of these pigment changes may then cause premature aging of the skin.
The radiation from the UV rays can cause blood capillary damage and increase the chance of melanoma (skin cancer).
At one time tanning beds were considered to be safer than the sun. Numerous studies have shown that this is far from the truth. Using a tanning bed can be just as dangerous to your health as the sun.
Another thing - when you are in the sun this summer, USE a sunscreen. You will still get a tan, I promise you... but it is more important to protect yourself from the harmful rays. Let's talk about sunscreen.
Sunscreen should be applied every day to exposed skin, and not just if you are going to be in the sun.
UVB rays cannot penetrate glass windows, but UVA rays can, leaving you prone to these damaging effects if unprotected. For days when you are going to be indoors, apply sunscreen on the areas not covered by clothing, such as the face and hands. Sunscreens can be applied under makeup, or alternatively, there are many cosmetic products available that contain sunscreens for daily use. Sun protection is the principal means of preventing premature aging and skin cancer.
Sunscreens should be applied to dry skin 15 to 30 minutes BEFORE going outdoors. When using sunscreen, be sure to apply it to all exposed areas and pay particular attention to the face, ears, hands, and arms. Coat the skin liberally and rub it in thoroughly — most people apply only 25 to 50 percent of the recommended amount of sunscreen.7 One ounce, enough to fill a shot glass, is considered the amount needed to cover the exposed areas of the body properly. Don't forget that lips get sunburned, too, so apply a lip balm that contains sunscreen with an SPF of 30 or higher.
Sunscreens should be reapplied approximately every two hours or after swimming or perspiring heavily. Even so-called "water-resistant" sunscreens may lose their effectiveness after 40 minutes in the water. Sunscreens rub off as well as wash off, so if you've towel-dried, reapply sunscreen for continued protection.
Also, there are a number of combination cosmetic products, such as moisturizers that contain sunscreen, but it is important to remember that these products also need to be reapplied to achieve continued UV protection.
There are so many types of sunscreen that selecting the right one can be quite confusing.
Sunscreens are available in many forms, including ointments, creams, gels, lotions, sprays, and wax sticks. The type of sunscreen you choose is a matter of personal choice. Creams are best for individuals with dry skin, but gels are preferable in hairy areas, such as the scalp or male chest. Sticks are good around the eyes. Creams typically yield a thicker application than lotions and are best for the face. There also are sunscreens made for specific purposes, such as sensitive skin and for use on babies.
Ideally, sunscreens should be water-resistant, so they cannot be easily removed by sweating or swimming, and should have an SPF of 30 or higher that provides broad-spectrum coverage against both UVA and UVB light. Ingredients to look for on the sunscreen label to ensure broad-spectrum UV coverage include:
Avobenzone
Cinoxate
Ecamsule
Menthyl anthranilate
Octyl methoxycinnamate
Octyl salicylate
Oxybenzone
Sulisobenzone
Titanium dioxide
Zinc oxide
Unless indicated by an expiration date, the FDA requires that all sunscreens be stable and at their original strength for at least three years.
You can use the sunscreen that you bought last summer, but keep in mind that if you are using the appropriate amount, a bottle of sunscreen should not last very long. About 1 ounce of sunscreen, enough to fill a shot glass, is considered to be the amount needed to cover the exposed areas of the body properly.
Let's talk SPF. SPF stands for sun protection factor. Sunscreens are rated or classified by the strength of their SPF. The SPF numbers on the packaging can range from as low as 2 to greater than 50. These numbers refer to the product's ability to deflect the sun's burning rays (UVB).
The sunscreen SPF rating is calculated by comparing the amount of time needed to produce a sunburn on sunscreen-protected skin to the amount of time needed to cause a sunburn on unprotected skin. For example, if a sunscreen is rated SPF 2 and a person who would normally turn red after 10 minutes of exposure in the sun uses it, it would take 20 minutes of exposure for the skin to turn red. A sunscreen with an SPF of 15 would allow that person to multiply that initial burning time by 15, which means it would take 15 times longer to burn, or 150 minutes. Even with this protection, sunscreen photo degrades (breaks down) and rubs off with normal wear, so it needs to be reapplied approximately every two hours.
Dermatologists strongly recommend using a broad-spectrum (UVA and UVB protection) water-resistant sunscreen with an SPF of 30 or greater year-round for all skin types. This will help protect against sunburn, premature aging (e.g., age spots and wrinkles) and skin cancer.
The SPF number on sunscreens only reflects the product's screening ability for UVB rays. At present, there is no FDA-approved rating system that identifies UVA protection. Scientists are working to create a standardized testing system to measure UVA protection.
UVB protection does not actually increase proportionately with a designated SPF number. For example, an SPF of 30 screens 97 percent of UVB rays, whereas an SPF of 15 screens 93 percent of UVB rays, and an SPF of 2 screens 50 percent of UVB rays. However, inadequate application of sunscreen may result in a lower SPF than the product contains.
Whichever SPF you choose, wearing sunscreen should not provide a false sense of security about protection from UVB exposure. No sunscreen can provide 100 percent UVB protection. Using a higher SPF provides greater UVB protection than a lower SPF, but it does not mean that you should stay out in the sun longer.
Sun exposure is the most preventable risk factor for skin cancer, including melanoma. You can have fun in the sun and decrease your risk of skin cancer. Here's how to Be Sun Smart:
Generously apply a broad-spectrum, water-resistant sunscreen with a sun protection factor (SPF) of at least 30 to all exposed skin. "Broad-spectrum" provides protection from both ultraviolet A (UVA) and ultraviolet B (UVB) rays. Reapply approximately every two hours, even on cloudy days, and after swimming or sweating.
Wear protective clothing, such as a long-sleeved shirt, pants, a wide-brimmed hat and sunglasses, where possible.
Seek shade when appropriate, remembering that the sun's rays are strongest between 10 a.m. and 4 p.m. If your shadow is shorter than you are, seek shade.
Protect children from sun exposure by playing in the shade, wearing protective clothing, and applying sunscreen.
Use extra caution near water, snow and sand because they reflect the damaging rays of the sun, which can increase your chance of sunburn.
Get vitamin D safely through a healthy diet that may include vitamin supplements. Don't seek the sun.
Avoid tanning beds. Ultraviolet light from the sun and tanning beds can cause skin cancer and wrinkling. If you want to look like you've been in the sun, consider using a sunless self-tanning product, but continue to use sunscreen with it.
Check your birthday suit on your birthday. If you notice anything changing, growing, or bleeding on your skin, see a dermatologist. Skin cancer is very treatable when caught early.
Just so you know - There is no safe way to tan. A tan damages the skin. Tanning occurs when ultraviolet rays penetrate the epidermis, the skin's outer layer causing the production of melanin as a response to the injury. Chronic exposure to ultraviolet light, both natural and artificial, results in a change in the skin's texture, causing wrinkling and age spots. Thus, tanning to improve appearance is ultimately self-defeating.
Every time you tan, you damage your skin and this damage accumulates over time. This accumulated damage, in addition to accelerating the aging process, also increases your risk for all types of skin cancer.
In case you forget to cover up and apply sunscreen, the resulting sunburn can be painful, as well as dangerous. Remember that you may not immediately see the effects of overexposure to the sun. It may take up to 24 hours before the full damage is visible.
There are several types of burns and burn treatments. The two most common sunburns are first-degree burns and second-degree burns.
First-degree sunburns cause redness and will heal, possibly with some peeling, within a few days. These can be painful and are best treated with cool baths and moisturizers or over-the-counter hydrocortisone creams.
Avoid the use of "-caine" products (such as benzocaine), which may cause sensitivity to a broad range of important chemicals. Anti-inflammatory oral medications such as aspirin or ibuprofen may lessen the pain and discomfort associated with sunburn.
Second-degree sunburns blister and can be considered a medical emergency if a large area is affected. Do not break the blisters, as they are a natural protective mechanism to heal the affected area and rupturing them delays the healing process and invites potential infection. A layer of gauze may be used to cover the area until healed.
When a burn is severe, accompanied by a headache, chills, or a fever, seek medical help immediately.
Be sure to protect your skin from the sun while it heals and thereafter.
Questions about Vitamin D - Unprotected UV exposure to the sun or indoor tanning devices is a known risk factor for the development of skin cancer. Sun exposure is responsible for vitamin D production in the skin, so wearing sunscreen will decrease the skin's production of vitamin D. Individuals who wear sunscreen and are concerned that they are not getting enough vitamin D should discuss their options for obtaining sufficient vitamin D from foods and/or vitamin supplements with their doctor.
Please think about your skin - and please take precautions. TRUST me.. you will care later.
Thursday, May 13, 2010
One Year and counting..
Approximately one year ago this picture was taken.
Friday, May 14th makes 1 year that my husband has been in the states.
I cannot even begin to tell you what a joyous occassion that was!!
We fought loooong and hard for that moment.
I still remember running around my apartment, trying to get everything in order.
You know - the normal girly stuff, putting things in just the right place, making sure the rooms smelled good, all the sheets were cleaned and the bed was made "just so."
I spent probably 2 hours grooming myself - long, hot bubble bath..mud mask for the face.. shaving the legs.. stuff like that.
My heart was probably beating 9000 beats per minute.
I remember trying to stay as calm as possible as I drove to the airport. (Semi-panic attack mode.)
I remember calling my co-worker Dusty and trying to keep calm.
I remember parking and feeling dizzy.. probably the blood pressure was through the roof.
I remember sitting and waiting (it seemed like forever) for his plane to arrive. I sat on the most uncomfortable bench in the world and talked to my friend Lynn (by cell) up until his plane landed.
I remember standing there FOREVER after it seemed everyone got off his plane.. nothing.. nothing.. then FINALLY - I see his smiling face coming toward me.
We hugged and he said, "You look exactly the same." LOL .. it had been close to 1 1/2 years since we had seen one another.
Luckily his bag was waiting for us downstairs, and we took off for home. I let him borrow my cell phone to call his friends and family back home. I heard such excitement in his voice...
Once we arrived at my home, he kept saying, "I can't believe it. I am FINALLY in America." We laughed.. and as soon as he entered my apartment, he just fell onto the couch.
I made him a cheese sandwich and he went through his entire suitcase and showed me everything. His entire life - packed into two suitcases.
We smiled and we hugged and we talked and we laughed some more.
What a year!
We are married, a bit more settled. WAAAY more used to one another. He has his green card, and a learner's permit to drive. He has a job.. we both have good friends and life is trucking along.
We hit some bumps back near the holidays. BIG bumps, that I thought we would never make it through. We cut out the negative and the toxic from our lives and are learning to lean on one another more.
We actually made it this far. If I were a betting girl, my guess is people did not think it would happen!
May 29th/30th will be our one year "officially" married anniversary. I have a BIG surprise for him.. (can't say, in case he actually reads this - but I don't think he does.) I will share with everyone later. I am working on it tomorrow.. and how appropriate, one year since his arrival.
I am so happy to have him in my life. I love this man more than words will ever express. I can't explain our twisted connection - but it works for us.
And this, my dear readers, is life.
Hungry for More?
From time to time I like to share a few of my favorite recipes. How about what I have for dinner tonight??
Looking for something new?? Enjoy!
No Bake Peanut Butter Pie
1 (8 ounce) package cream cheese
1 1/2 cups confectioners' sugar
1 cup peanut butter
1 cup milk
1 (16 ounce) package frozen whipped topping, thawed
2 (9 inch) prepared graham cracker crusts
Beat together cream cheese and confectioners' sugar.
Mix in peanut butter and milk.
Beat until smooth.
Fold in whipped topping.
Spoon into two 9 inch graham cracker pie shells; cover, and freeze until firm.
Orzo Salad
4 cups chicken broth
1 (16 ounce) package orzo pasta
1 1/2 tablespoons butter
1/4 cup extra-virgin olive oil
1 1/2 teaspoons minced garlic
1/2 teaspoon dried basil
1/2 teaspoon dried thyme
1/4 teaspoon crushed red pepper flakes
1 cup pine nuts
1 cup pitted kalamata olives
1 (2 ounce) jar capers, with liquid
12 ounces basil-flavored feta cheese
1 (10 ounce) bag fresh spinach leaves, chopped
1 tablespoon lemon juice
Bring the chicken broth to a boil over high heat. Add the orzo pasta, and cook until al dente, 8 to 10 minutes. Drain well, then pour the orzo into a bowl, and toss with the butter to keep it from sticking; set aside.
While the pasta is cooking, heat the olive oil in a skillet over medium heat. Stir in the garlic, and cook until the garlic softens and the aroma mellows, about 2 minutes. Stir in the basil, thyme, red pepper flakes, and pine nuts. Cook and stir until the pine nuts have toasted to a light golden brown.
Stir the pine nut mixture into the orzo along with the olives, capers, feta cheese, spinach, and lemon juice. Serve either warm or cold, but it's better the next day.
Looking for something new?? Enjoy!
No Bake Peanut Butter Pie
1 (8 ounce) package cream cheese
1 1/2 cups confectioners' sugar
1 cup peanut butter
1 cup milk
1 (16 ounce) package frozen whipped topping, thawed
2 (9 inch) prepared graham cracker crusts
Beat together cream cheese and confectioners' sugar.
Mix in peanut butter and milk.
Beat until smooth.
Fold in whipped topping.
Spoon into two 9 inch graham cracker pie shells; cover, and freeze until firm.
Orzo Salad
4 cups chicken broth
1 (16 ounce) package orzo pasta
1 1/2 tablespoons butter
1/4 cup extra-virgin olive oil
1 1/2 teaspoons minced garlic
1/2 teaspoon dried basil
1/2 teaspoon dried thyme
1/4 teaspoon crushed red pepper flakes
1 cup pine nuts
1 cup pitted kalamata olives
1 (2 ounce) jar capers, with liquid
12 ounces basil-flavored feta cheese
1 (10 ounce) bag fresh spinach leaves, chopped
1 tablespoon lemon juice
Bring the chicken broth to a boil over high heat. Add the orzo pasta, and cook until al dente, 8 to 10 minutes. Drain well, then pour the orzo into a bowl, and toss with the butter to keep it from sticking; set aside.
While the pasta is cooking, heat the olive oil in a skillet over medium heat. Stir in the garlic, and cook until the garlic softens and the aroma mellows, about 2 minutes. Stir in the basil, thyme, red pepper flakes, and pine nuts. Cook and stir until the pine nuts have toasted to a light golden brown.
Stir the pine nut mixture into the orzo along with the olives, capers, feta cheese, spinach, and lemon juice. Serve either warm or cold, but it's better the next day.
Apologies and Chocolate Cake
First of all, I want to apologize for the angry blog post yesterday. I basically got blind sided and ganged up on from some old friends yesterday. We were trying to plan a weekend away, and unfortunately I had to make a decision - they did not like it - and you would think I had personally insulted their mothers or something. LOL
Needless to say, NOW I remember how dramatic they are. And you KNOW how I am trying to cut the drama out.
Okay.. now that is over. :-)
I want to share with you guys a very positive side of my life.
Last night, I got to say goodbye to our high school seniors in our youth group at Prince of Peace Catholic Church. Whether or not you know, I am a youth group leader. I love it! These kids make me laugh, are truly good "eggs" and I am sure will grow up to be amazing, talented kids.
Our youth group, in my opinion, is fairly large. These kids are basically from upper middle class homes, mainly white, some hispanic and one asian. Very smart - public and private school - and each truly has a good heart. I love working as a youth group leader. I probably get as much out of it as the kids do. I will admit, I am bad about skipping mass on Sunday, but I always try to make it to bible study with the kids. Our youth minister, Collen, does a great job of keeping it positive and fun - plus the adults share their experiences and how the "gospel" for next week's mass applies to our lives.
I know I mention God and my church and what not a lot. But I also want you to understand (if you are not religious or believe something different) - I am not a "religious nut" as I like to call it. I enjoy spirituality. I enjoy believing in something higher. I am grateful. I enjoy the ceremony of worship.
I think these kids are very similar. They embrace it, without it consuming their personality. You can believe without pushing your views on other people. I just wanted to clarify that.
Where are our seniors going?
Taylor is going to Berry College in Georgia. He got a scholarship to play baseball and plans to go pre-vet.
Mirela is going to UAB in Birmingham. She will study education.
Jay is going to Samford University in Birmingham. He is going to study music and political science (with a goal of tranferring to Notre Dame and maybe becoming a priest.)
Amanda is going to Spring Hill College in Mobile, AL. She will study Marine Biology.
Connor is going to University of Alabama in Tuscaloosa. He will study Communication.
Andrew is going to Auburn University in Auburn, Al. He will study electrical engineering.
Joey is going to University of Alabama. He will study music and pre-med.
Congrats to some awesome kids!
Needless to say, NOW I remember how dramatic they are. And you KNOW how I am trying to cut the drama out.
Okay.. now that is over. :-)
I want to share with you guys a very positive side of my life.
Last night, I got to say goodbye to our high school seniors in our youth group at Prince of Peace Catholic Church. Whether or not you know, I am a youth group leader. I love it! These kids make me laugh, are truly good "eggs" and I am sure will grow up to be amazing, talented kids.
Our youth group, in my opinion, is fairly large. These kids are basically from upper middle class homes, mainly white, some hispanic and one asian. Very smart - public and private school - and each truly has a good heart. I love working as a youth group leader. I probably get as much out of it as the kids do. I will admit, I am bad about skipping mass on Sunday, but I always try to make it to bible study with the kids. Our youth minister, Collen, does a great job of keeping it positive and fun - plus the adults share their experiences and how the "gospel" for next week's mass applies to our lives.
I know I mention God and my church and what not a lot. But I also want you to understand (if you are not religious or believe something different) - I am not a "religious nut" as I like to call it. I enjoy spirituality. I enjoy believing in something higher. I am grateful. I enjoy the ceremony of worship.
I think these kids are very similar. They embrace it, without it consuming their personality. You can believe without pushing your views on other people. I just wanted to clarify that.
Where are our seniors going?
Taylor is going to Berry College in Georgia. He got a scholarship to play baseball and plans to go pre-vet.
Mirela is going to UAB in Birmingham. She will study education.
Jay is going to Samford University in Birmingham. He is going to study music and political science (with a goal of tranferring to Notre Dame and maybe becoming a priest.)
Amanda is going to Spring Hill College in Mobile, AL. She will study Marine Biology.
Connor is going to University of Alabama in Tuscaloosa. He will study Communication.
Andrew is going to Auburn University in Auburn, Al. He will study electrical engineering.
Joey is going to University of Alabama. He will study music and pre-med.
Congrats to some awesome kids!
Tuesday, May 11, 2010
Cultural Changes
Many friends have asked me what is it like to live in a multi-cultural home? This is more than a catholic living with a protestant. It's more than a mexican-american living with a white or black american.
This is learning to live with someone who literally set foot on American soil one year ago this Friday.
Needless to say, we come from two completely different backgrounds, belief systems, cultural and social norms and ethnicities.
If you have not figured it out from my previous blog posts - I am married to a man by the name of Yasser. I tend to call him "the egyptian." Why? He's Egyptian.
Yasser was born in April of 1981 in Alexandria, Egypt.
Alexandria is a major populated city. It is the second largest city in Egypt with about 11.9 million people living there. Needless to say, he grew up in a major metropolitan area. Not only did he grow up in the "big city", he also grew up on the Mediterranean Sea. Sooo.. he is a coastal guy. He told me he grew up eating fresh seafood at least 5 times a week.
Yasser went to university in Beirut, Lebanon. Later he worked in both Syria and Jordan. Now, he is in America.
He speaks three languages: Arabic (his native), English and French. He speaks most dialects of Arabic.
Then let's talk about where Egypt is - it's North Africa, and it is considered a part of the middle east. He is an Arab (but an African) and he is a Sunni Muslim.
He grew up in a very religious household. His mother actually wears a full burqa. He prays 5 times a day, and when he reads - 9 times out of 10 he will pick up the Qu'ran.
Then let's get to me. I was born in Macon, Georgia. That's right smack dab in the middle of Georgia. The South. The epitome of the south.
Macon might have about 100,000 people. We consider our little town to be the Cherry Blossom Capital of the World. LOL. Seriously. Macon also has another claim to fame- it has more churches per square mile than any other city. Oh yeah.
Protestant churches, might I add.
I am Catholic. My mom is orginally from Macon. My dad is from Indiana. A very non-traditional family. Artistic, if you will. I was born in 1973.
Note the age difference between my egyptian and I.
Needless to say - there are some differences.
Yasser joined me in Birmingham, Alabama for many reasons. 1. He speaks Arabic, and I do not. 2. There are more opportunities here (America) and 3. I already had a home and car and the other things we need to live alone!
Sooo.. what changes have taken place for me?? There are several. Some are funny, some are not.
Here is my little list of cultural changes:
1. There are verses from the Qu'ran on my wall. Framed pics. Not something I ever imagined having. They are hanging right across from my picture of the Sacred Heart of Jesus. ;-)
2. The egyptian (in the beginning) kept taking my crosses down, and putting them in different places. I would find them, and put them back.
3. No alcohol in the house. Muslims do not drink. Catholics do. Hmm.. I think God provided a little divine intervention (literally) - I started taking meds for my Blood Pressure that warn to not consume any alcoholic beverages... sooo.. I have not had a drink since Oct. Our home is completely alcohol free. That's odd for some of my friends, because I used to be quite the party girl.
4. No pork in the house. This one was the hardest. Not that I ate pork everyday, but I DO live in the south, and we are the best at soul food/southern cooking - which pork is usually a staple. No more pork bacon, I have learned to eat turkey bacon. No more sausage gravy with biscuits. No more ribs, chops, and pork hot dogs for the grill. All beef. I just buy halal or kosher meats.
5. Clothing. Not that I EVER wore crazy revealing clothes, but my neckline is a lot higher now. My arms are covered. I don't wear skirts that come above mid-calf. I was able to get out the door in shorts ONCE. He was not pleased. When we go to the pool, I have to wear a cover up, and can take it off once in the water.
6. Knowing that at least 5 times a day I must turn all sound off - he will stop to pray.
7. No pets. Cleanliness is essential in Islam. Not that I am dirty - but animals in the home are consider disgusting. Sooo.. no more kitties.. no more puppies.. Also dogs are not allowed in the house - period. They believe that when you pray, that angels will not recieve the prayer to carry to Allah (God.)
8. Driving to the Mosque on Friday. That's their day of worship.
9. Privacy. Yikes. I am an open book. Privacy is SUPER important in relationships. No discussing any intimate details with others. Women are to be humble, modest and quiet. I am NONE of those things. ;-)
10. The man is consider the head of the house. Umm.. er...
Now the list of items that are different for the egyptian would require hole other ram of memory. LOL
I wanted to add one more graphic. (Click on it for a larger view.)
Here is a look at what he and I agree on when it comes to our religions. (Which clearly are a HUGE role in both of our lives.)
Check it out. Tell me what you think!
What differences do you have to learn to live with??
Monday, May 10, 2010
Where I go - virtually
It is rare for me to visit a website daily. As much as I would like to tell you that I read random daily newspapers online, and other items like that - I don't. Heck, I get every newspaper from the greater Birmingham area, and I don't get around to half of them. :-$
BUT - from time to time I find a new website that I absolutely LOVE.
I thought I would share a few with you guys. At the end of this post - I would LOVE LOVE LOVE for you to share your favorites. I am always looking for some place to go virtually.
1. Obviously - the first place I go every morning is Facebook. What has happened??? Most of my messages, correspondence, etc is all done on Facebook. BLOWS my mind on what a power house this site has become. I would love for my readers (my regulars) to request me as a friend. Would be nice to get to know you guys better! My badge is at the bottom of the page - you can get my name that way!
2. Blogspot.com. Of course. I check my blog comments and look for my favorite blogs about three times a day. I LOVE reading my favorite blogs. I truly look forward to all of your posts. I try to comment, but sometimes I just like reading!
3. Myspace.com - I check in on the old profile about once a week. Not a big user of Myspace. What I like about it is the fact that I can be a bit more creative with the site.
4. Pandora.com - This site makes me soooo happy. I can create different playlists by genre or an artist's name. LOVE this.
5. This morning I discovered a new fabulous online radio website - stereomood.com - Check this out, there are 80 different "moods" and then the genome creates a list for you. How cool is that???
6. Yahoo.com - yep. My email. But I personalized my page, I check the weather, the movie listings (seriously - the egyptian and I see about 3 movies a week).. I check out the Onion's top stories.
7. Youtube.com - I have some subscriptions and favorites. I always check out the AP (Associated Press video) - that comes from the old journalist in me.
8. ABC3340.com - local tv website. Has any top stories I need to catch.
9. Activeculture.info - local stuff and happenings
10. al.com - latest and greatest in AL.
What are your daily sites??
BUT - from time to time I find a new website that I absolutely LOVE.
I thought I would share a few with you guys. At the end of this post - I would LOVE LOVE LOVE for you to share your favorites. I am always looking for some place to go virtually.
1. Obviously - the first place I go every morning is Facebook. What has happened??? Most of my messages, correspondence, etc is all done on Facebook. BLOWS my mind on what a power house this site has become. I would love for my readers (my regulars) to request me as a friend. Would be nice to get to know you guys better! My badge is at the bottom of the page - you can get my name that way!
2. Blogspot.com. Of course. I check my blog comments and look for my favorite blogs about three times a day. I LOVE reading my favorite blogs. I truly look forward to all of your posts. I try to comment, but sometimes I just like reading!
3. Myspace.com - I check in on the old profile about once a week. Not a big user of Myspace. What I like about it is the fact that I can be a bit more creative with the site.
4. Pandora.com - This site makes me soooo happy. I can create different playlists by genre or an artist's name. LOVE this.
5. This morning I discovered a new fabulous online radio website - stereomood.com - Check this out, there are 80 different "moods" and then the genome creates a list for you. How cool is that???
6. Yahoo.com - yep. My email. But I personalized my page, I check the weather, the movie listings (seriously - the egyptian and I see about 3 movies a week).. I check out the Onion's top stories.
7. Youtube.com - I have some subscriptions and favorites. I always check out the AP (Associated Press video) - that comes from the old journalist in me.
8. ABC3340.com - local tv website. Has any top stories I need to catch.
9. Activeculture.info - local stuff and happenings
10. al.com - latest and greatest in AL.
What are your daily sites??
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