tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4239739807914901688.post1636785303186114528..comments2023-10-30T07:33:01.023-04:00Comments on Destination Unknown: Should this be the end?Nicolehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09446171177767324879noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4239739807914901688.post-52637472761839014412012-08-21T11:05:22.547-04:002012-08-21T11:05:22.547-04:00You have to do what you feel in your heart. Take a...You have to do what you feel in your heart. Take a break . . . as long as you need. If it calls you back, then return. If it calls you to start something new, then do that.<br /><br />I started reading you so many moons ago because of your honesty. I loved your writing, I learned about things and thought of subjects that I had never really considered before. I was interested in your life and your relationship (seriously). And then, after a while, I felt connected to you in a deeper friendship sort of way than just a blog follower. I am so grateful that our paths crossed, and owe it all to our blogs. It's good. <br /><br />But I understand what you are feeling and the questions that you are asking of yourself right now. I can only offer the suggestion that you do what your heart tells you. Tell the stories your heart wants to tell, in the way that your heart wants to tell them. <br /><br />For me, blogging has been an avenue for me to share my deepest thoughts, and it has helped me realize that I am not alone (during times when I have felt alot). It allowed me to be the person I have always dreamed of becoming. And I am so very grateful for it. I am thinking of you, my friend. Will try and call you tonight. Hugs. Leannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17800466894354194636noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4239739807914901688.post-49929906988948699092012-08-21T09:41:52.276-04:002012-08-21T09:41:52.276-04:00I've been blogging for almost 2.5 years and fi...I've been blogging for almost 2.5 years and find its so cyclical. MOST bloggy friends are cyclical, posting seems cyclical etc. <br />I wouldn't give up on writing but perhaps for your professional protection you may wish to be anonymous. It will give you the freedom to be you again - I miss the open book Nicole. She' real!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08227901246269675588noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4239739807914901688.post-75960280280440860382012-08-21T09:19:33.454-04:002012-08-21T09:19:33.454-04:00Right now, I'm working on a totally anonymous ...Right now, I'm working on a totally anonymous side project because I'm in a big blog slump. That's always an option - something that really is just for you and could be a whole new "thing". <br /><br />Here's why I don't comment much, though: it's not my place to tell you what to do with regard to your marriage, and if I start, I will go OFF on how ridiculous your husband's treatment of you is, and how sad it makes me that you seem to just accept it and take the tiny crumbs he occasionally offers as signs of hope. He has it MADE. It seems to me, and I think it seems to him, that he can go on treating you like you don't exist, without fearing that he'll be thrown out on his butt. I hope that you will decide you deserve better than that.Jackihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10278748401857024569noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4239739807914901688.post-3978453121212511522012-08-21T04:23:27.954-04:002012-08-21T04:23:27.954-04:00I've been feeling the same way about my blog. ...I've been feeling the same way about my blog. After 2 years, I just don't have a rythym and sometimes it feels like torture to have to write. You will find your answer. :-)J.A. Martinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08990784751072598124noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4239739807914901688.post-85686308800646241882012-08-20T23:35:11.480-04:002012-08-20T23:35:11.480-04:00you are not alone.
I think it would make me crazy...you are not alone.<br /><br />I think it would make me crazy to not have at least ONE place where I could write whatever I needed to get off my chest and feel safe, but also validated to some degree. And it's not always possible to do that in a blog.... I have thought of starting another blog that remains private. I guess it would just be my journal/diary in a blog setting.<br /><br />well, anyway, what I want to say is, I love your blog, I enjoy reading your writing, even though at times I want to wring that man's neck for what emotional games he's playing with you!!! I hope you stick with it but maybe just taking a break for a time will help you decide..... ((hugz))songbyrdonthemountainhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15972167645190643502noreply@blogger.com